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I would have been standing right next to you Emma, saying go girl go. This golf club thing all sounds bang out of order, he shouldn't be coaching children. In fact my blood is boiling on your behalf
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To this day I regret not calling in the police and turning it into an assault matter. A solicitor friend of ours said we'd have a case because the coach was drunk, had no CRB, there were plenty of witnesses and he forcefully pushed my son off the pitch. He hadn't even done anything wrong. The entire game was a shambles because the coach was drunk. I was very close to hitting the coach that day and even now I wished I had. I'd have happily stood in the magistrates court for assault just for the self-satisfaction of hitting him. I'm not a violent person; I'm just uber-protective of my kiddoes. That was quite a few years ago now but it's all still very raw. Thanks for your support Suze. x
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Don't you have to join the club in order to play on a course or can you just pay for the day, you can tell I don't play golf
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You can of course have a membership to a club which allows you play whenever you like and, I think, how often you like, but these are expensive. Maybe when my husband retires he'd consider having a membership so he could go a couple of times a week, but I still think he'd prefer the variety of playing at other clubs and not tie himself down with a membership. It's just a social thing for our family. No one wants to get into the competition and tournament side of things; just a fun round of golf followed by refreshment in the 19th.
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thanks you learn something everyday when we used to dingy sail we had to join if we wanted to sail at any of the various resovoirs or lakes as not many sold day tickets, and each water was 'owned' by a different club, the trouble with joining is that you would be expected to do so many days in the clubhouse etc which wasn't for us as we could only sail when hubby wasn't working. We didn't want to spend the few days that we could sail working behind the bar so we never joined any.
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No problem - I don't play golf either! Can't imagine anything worse than getting up at the crack of dawn to walk around loads of fields hitting a ball along the way, like my hubby seems to love doing!
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Made a child put a dirty ball in his mouth? If that was my child he'd have a ball in his mouth alright, one of those that should be attached to him! Cheeky, naughty or not, that's not normal discipline from someone in a position of trust!
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Just had another run-in with the golf pro!! Yesterday he aggressively insisted my daughter and another child her age climb into the golf buggy and stand up while he drove them a few yards down the fairway to allow some adult players to play through. He had a container of balls on the seat next to him and refused to remove them for the kids to sit down.
I'm fuming that he made these kids stand up and hold on for dear life in a moving buggy. He also started to move off before my daughter had both feet in. I'm pretty certain health and safety wouldn't allow this to happen and I've had a huge row with him. I have to say, it's been building for a while but now he's potentially endangered one of my kids, I've got real cause for complaint. His immediate answer was to ask why I was phoning him about it now and why my 11 year old daughter hadn't told him she was unhappy about it and felt unsafe and scared. He literally said it was her fault for not complaining there and then. He's not the nicest of people - what makes him think an 11 year old is going to broach a complaint to him?! She nearly fell out the buggy and her companion had to grab hold of her. I asked him what would have happened if she had sustained an injury and his answer was 'I've got public liability insurance up to £3 million!!!' Well jolly good for him! To say it was a heated conversation is a an understatement. I've now demanded the health and safety policy and child protection policy and have told him he's left me no choice but to issue a formal complaint with the general manager. I've also contacted the firm they use for their legislation for clarification on the situation and spoken to a few other clubs' golf professionals, all of whom have said it's common sense not to have standing passengers in a moving buggy and it goes against their club's rules and regulations. As it happens, he was only moving them to allow two adult players to play through and my daughter and the other child only had to step to one side to let them play through, as the rules of golf etiquette state, and then they could have continued with their game. He even made them leave their golf bags behind and my daughter was most unhappy about leaving her pink bag and pink clubs!! The man is a total bell-end! While I was at it I asked him about the previous incident when he tried making another child put a golf ball in his mouth. He instantly knew what I was referring to and said he knew the parents and explained the situation and they were fine. I wouldn't like to imagine what sort of parents they are then but it still doesn't make it alright that he humiliated a child in such a manner. It's been a long time coming but I'm determined this man is going to be answerable for his behaviour. He's not the type to admit he was in the wrong and apologise so I think it's going to get interesting..... My daughter's been told by us that if she feels he's asking her to do something inappropriate to just refuse and if necessary go and find her older brother on the course. I'm not sure we'll be using him much more. The other golf-pro there is great, doesn't have a huge ego and the kids all get on really well with him. I'm fed up of coming across egotistical *ickheads as coaches.
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Emma that is shocking!! He might have liability insurance but that wont help him get a job if one of the kids had been injured! You do not put people at risk, most certainly not children!
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Wow, that's so incredible. So his public insurance means he can risk and potentially damage a child for life does it, this man has no scruples and needs sacking.
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