There are 2 clear choices here...
Be a member and hey...no one is perfect.
Dont be a member and let those that are be happy...as am I... doing what they do...
I just wish I was perfect.
If I was so desperately unhappy with things then I sure as hell wouldnt waste my time or energy trying to prove something. I would just get on with it and try to do a better job myself...quietly.